9 BDSM Sex Toys Every BDSM Player Should Own
  • Dec 02, 2015|
  • Blog |
  • michael james

Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle player or just feeling experimental because you read 50 Shades, real BDSM toys are essential for you and your partner! Here is a list of 9 BDSM sex toys every BDSM player should own.


stainless steel cock rings - cockring

Cock Ring

There are many reasons why people use cock rings and there are several types of cock rings to use. Cock rings are one of the more common sex aids you can buy. There's a range from rings of torture to rings that give raging boners. Why would you want to wear a cock ring? They work by preventing blood flow from leaving the penis, which helps maintain a thicker, fuller erection, while intensifying sensations. For some guys, this is enjoyable and helps them last longer; in some cases, it helps with ED. There are two ways to wear a cock ring. One way is to put the cock and balls through the ring, and the other way is to wear the ring at the base of the shaft. A crucial note for you to keep in mind when buying toys for your cock: you should never use a ring that is too small for you; this could cause permanent damage to your penis. If there's visible narrowing of the shaft where the ring sits or if there's any discoloration, remove the ring immediately. You can find rings in many different sizes and out of different materials, so find what works best for you.

 

 

sexandmetal.com nipple traps - bonnie rotten wearing the nipple clamps

Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps can go from fun to torturous very quickly. There are several nipple bondage devices on the market and some are more severe than others. Like the Nipple Traps by Sexandmetal.com, some nipple torture clamps have two polished steel bars that clamp down on both nipples simultaneously. There are two nuts welded at either end of the steel bars for the thumb screws to tighten together. Having both your nipples placed in one steel bondage nipple trap means their destinies are linked and in the hands of the Dominant partner. We have several nipple clamp designs here at Sexandmetal.com. Buy nipple clamps now.

 

 

blue jeweled butt plug - anal toy

Jeweled Butt Plugs

Bedazzle your partner's already dazzling ass with a Jewel Butt Plug. The Jewel Anal Plug comes in different sizes and colors. The small size plug is an excellent toy to introduce your partner to anal play. You can work your way to an extra large with a little anal training. Jewel Butt plugs are a fun way to put a little sparkle back into your relationship or to just add a bit of fun, glitz, and glamor to your anal play. We have Jewel Anal Plugs in two sizes and six awesome colors.

 

 

bondage handcuffs

Handcuffs

Handcuffs are ideal for putting your partner in bondage for some kinky fun after catching them being mischievous. Captivity in bondage cuffs as a punishment is a fantasy held by many people, especially a lot of females, and if 50 Shades of Grey has shown the world anything, it's how many women actually have bondage and BDSM fantasies. Here at Sexandmetal.com we specialize in exquisite bondage gear made from cold hard steel that immobilizes the hands and wrists of any willing subject. Explore our line today and shop for Bondage gear.

 

 

bondage ball gags

Bondage Gag

Everyone should own a bondage gag whether you're vanilla, in a D/S relationship or a Pro Dom/Domina. Gags are a great way to take control of your partner and hear their moans silenced and muffled through your new bondage gag. There are many types of mouth gags available on the market. Some of the most popular gags include: ball gags, spider gags, bite bits, candy ball gags, and open mouth O-ring gags. All are fun and have different uses.

 

 

leather flogger and impact toy whip by sexandmetal.com

Impact Toys, Floggers & Whips

Floggers and whips are the first things anyone thinks of when someone mentions BDSM. Owning your very own flogger and honing your skills is a must for any Dominant individual. Floggers are an important feat when learning impact play. Becoming skilled and proficient throwing whips takes a lot of time and practice (and self-inflicted welts), so beginners should start with a leather flogger since the impact is not as intense as a whip or dragon tongue. Slowly working your way up to something that has a little more of a crack will be appreciated by your partner/bottom and will help you to dial in your aim and your throwing arm. Here at Sexandmetal.com we provide a range of impact toys suitable for everyone from beginners to experienced BDSM players.

 

 

bdsm pinwheel by sexandmetal

Pinwheels

BDSM Pinwheels are the staple in sensation play. The Wartenberg pinwheel has been used by medical doctors for years to test nerve reactions and sensitivity. The device is ordinarily steel or stainless steel and has a wheel that consists of several sharp spikes (pins) that uniformly circle the wheel's core. Pinwheels are used by rolling the sharp pins systematically over the skin, stimulating and arousing sensation from the bottom. Here at Sexandmetal.com we have designed some of our pinwheels after medieval torture devices straight out of the medieval handbook.

 

 

caddy compson in bondage ropes, photo by Charley B

Bondage Ropes

One fascinating form of BDSM play is rope bondage. Watching someone who's' skilled in the art of Shibari is captivating. They make it look so easy! But don't be fooled, it takes years of practice to be able to properly rig for a suspension, harnesses/karada (intricate rope dressing). If this is a form of play you're interested in, you should go to local munches, Shibari classes and read books. You will not be disappointed you did. If you want to try your hand at putting your partner in rope bondage, why not try the Fifty Shades of Grey Bondage Rope? It comes in two colors and is a must for beginners. Here's a video on how to put your partner in a simple shoulder harness. You can then tie the harness to a bed post and let the teasing (or torturing) commence. Always remember to have safety shears on-hand when playing with bondage rope.

 

Here is a Demonstrational Video on How to Tie a Simple Shoulder Harness


 

the electro erotic Neon Wand by KinkLab

ElectroSex Devices

The Neon Wand by KinkLab is a solid-state electro ray wand that is perfect for anyone who wants to explore the kinky world of electro play. Tiny little bolts of electricity shoot out of the electrodes to stimulate the subject’s skin. The intensity of these shocks can be turned up and down, like the volume on a stereo. For added fun when playing with electro wands, use a body contact probe like the Power Tripper from KinkLab.

 

 

Demonstrational Video of Kinklab Electrosex Neon Wand & Power Tripper by Sunny Megatron, Mistress Aiden Starr & Skin Diamond


So that's it, 9 BDSM sex toys every player should own. We'd love to hear your thoughts on toys you think should be in every BDSM players toy box. Leave any comments or feedback in the comment section below or give us a shout out on our social media accounts.